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adult-dating-sites-alternative-lifestyle is flashy, fun, and dirty. It’s a niche dating site for those who are into BDSM. is one of the oldest and most reliable adult dating sites on the BDSM scene and it boasts a good number of members. If BDSM is your thing, definitely a site to check out!


When we first sign on, we were greeted by our “new matches”, which is a nice feature for seeing newbies in your area that are a good match for you that you can hookup with. It’s also exciting to know that we will show up on this list on other members’ accounts! Past that, you can navigate to your profile, search (online now, VIP members, or advanced search), what’s hot (hottest videos, hottest photos, hottest members, and adult movies), live action (IM and chat rooms), or community (store, blogs, etc.). Clicking on some of these areas will bring you to the upgrade page. If that happens, it means it is an advanced area or feature that is reserved for Silver or Gold members. We will talk more about that below.

They also have a points program in which you are “rewarded with points for doing certain activities” on the site. There is a page where all these activities are listed along with how many points the action will be worth. You can redeem these points for a number of things, including: Membership subscriptions, virtual flowers, a featured profile, or an t-shirt! That last one seems kinda silly, but oh well!

If you decide to upgrade your account (see prices below), you will gain these features:

Silver Membership Features

  • View and contact members.
  • Show up before free members in searches (but after Gold Members).
  • Contact new members before free members (but after Gold Members).
  • Access members’ live and recorded video intros.
  • 24/7 phone support.

Gold Membership Features

  • View and contact members.
  • Show up before basic and Silver Members in searches.
  • Be the first to contact new members.
  • Unlimited access to members’ live and recorded video intros.
  • Unlimited access to blog, groups, and magazine features.
  • Access to extra large photos.
  • Access to ICQ, AIM, YIM, and MSN ID’s of members in your network.
  • 24/7 phone support.

The Good has something not every adult dating site has: a specialty. On this site you will only find other members who are into BDSM, so you won’t have to sort through a bunch of members who aren’t into the same thing as you. I found this site incredibly easy to use and understand. I received lots of messages from other local members and was able to meet up with several people. On top of that, you can see all the great features they have for upgraded accounts in the section above. The bottom line, really, is that you will get laid and you will find people who are into BDSM, just like you.

 The Bad

The only bad thing about is if you have a basic account you can’t do very much. But again, this is true of almost any good, legit adult dating site (especially a niche one!) so it’s not really a hit on


As with most adult dating sites, comes with a small price tag. You can subscribe to one of two membership levels: Silver or Gold. The Gold Membership can be purchased for $161.10 for a 12 month subscription, $59.97 for a 3 month subscription, or $29.95 per month for a one month subscription. The Silver Membership can be purchased for $107.40 for a 12 month subscription, $35.97 for a 3 month subscription, or $19.95 for a one month subscription. Both the Gold and Silver Memberships are offered as 12 month subscriptions for $8.95 per month, with the Gold Membership coming with 6 months free.

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If you’re into BDSM, is one of the best adult dating sites you’ll find! Simple as that. It is full of sexy members, useful features, and is all-around great. If you’re truly looking for a great alternative lifestyle and fetish dating site, look no further! If you’re looking for a non-niche, legit sex hookup site, make sure you check out my review to find out if there’s an Easy Sex scam or not! (Spoiler: there’s not.)

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