June 22 2015
Imagine my hesitation when my GUY friend told me about Adultmeetings.com. I mean, I respect his opinion and I know he’d never steer me wrong but a guy’s idea of a dating site is probably a lot different than a girl’s ideal. Nonetheless, I tried it out and let’s just say, I took my friend out for drinks to thank him for sharing this beautiful little secret site, that’s about to turn into the #1 site, with me. I say that it’s about to get bigger because every time I log on, there are already thousands of new members so I can tell that it’s gonna be huge.
You might not be convinced when you first go to the site because it does look like a ‘men’s only’ site but then the site asks ‘Who Are You?’ and ‘Who Are You Looking To Meet’ and from there, it’s all like any other dating site for all types of singles. You just have to get past the first few pages to start seeing the men and then you’ll be happy you didn’t judge the site by the homepage.
What doesn’t this site have? I was in the mood for a little side action when I joined, nothing too serious and nothing too time consuming.
In your profile set up, you can choose everything that you’re looking for in a partner. Pick and choose your preferences. If you want something casual, if you’re openly bi-sexual, if you want a partner with brown eyes, you can select it all.
Fine tuning your profile opens up this world of dating that you never knew existed. It’s usually just about who you want to meet and what’s your favorite sex position but here, you really get down to the details when looking for a partner. I think that’s the difference between a good site and an okay site. You get quality matches rather than a whole bunch of mediocre matches.
From instant messages to the usual pay for services like Live Web Cams and videos, there is something for everyone. It’s exciting to switch up your profile with emoticons and personal updates. If you’re feeling ‘drunk’ or ‘silly’ or ‘horny’, you can let the world know. Send Flirts & Winks to your matches and even check out their location to see who’s closest to you for a faster date. You can choose to accept only the matches that AdultMeetings sends to you or you can venture off the path and select your own guys from a long list of local hotties.
What I liked most about this site and I’m sure you will too, is that it’s FREE. Adult Meetings is running a promotion for a free lifetime membership with a valid credit card. Unfortunately you can’t skip that part if you want access to videos and e-mails. It won’t cost you a thing but there are pay for services that you’ll need a credit card for if you want to try them out anyway, so it’s better to be prepared. Imagine being in the mood and wanting to try a certain feature and having to enter in your credit card info first. What a mood killer. Do it now so that it’s convenient later.
If you choose to upgrade your account to a Gold VIP membership, it’ll cost you $49.95 per month with your first 2 months being free. You’ll have a featured profile and get free mobile access with this membership. It’s worth it if you really want to get yourself out there and meet quality matches. It’s easy to cancel your membership too. You have up until the last day of the month will no additional charges. Not like you’ll want to cancel when you see how much you get for your dollar.
I chose to go the Gold route and I was busy chatting with local men in my city. I could’ve stayed on my profile all day and never run out of someone to talk to but I had to go to work. I stayed on the site to trial it for 2 months which was longer than the month I had originally planned. I was sucked in because the guys are so hot and I was going on real dates! I kept it simple for myself by sending a message a day to a new match which did not include the messages that guys sent me and I got a response for all 60 messages. I went on 17 dates and could’ve gone on more but I was having a hard time keeping up with my work and sleep so I had to turn down a few but there really are no limitations. I only slept with 2 guys but again, I could’ve gotten as wild as I wanted. The opportunity was there but I either wasn’t feeling the date, had prior commitments or the guy didn’t have an apartment to go to and mine wasn’t ‘date’ ready so I had to decline.
You can sign in from anywhere with a Gold membership. When you pay that little bit extra, you have access to your profile from your phone. I don’t know about you but I don’t always want to wait until I get home to check the messages guys have sent me. I am curious and want to know what they’re saying ASAP. Being a Gold member gave me the option to keep in touch and sneak texts all day. I didn’t always want to give out my phone number so this was the next big thing. This was a big plus for me.
If you don’t turn off e-mail notifications, you can go through a lot of data with a notification for every single message, wink, flirt, new match, etc… Make sure you look at all of your profile options to make sure that you’re not being bombarded with flashing lights and constant e-mails.
The web cam ads are pesky and when you’re having a late night, intimate conversation, it’s annoying to have them pop up at the worst times. They don’t have an option to turn them off in your profile settings but I’m sure there’s a way to get them to stop, I just haven’t figured it out in my time as a member. Also make sure you have an ad blocker on your computer to block all 3rd party ads or that can become a hassle as well.
When your profile is featured it’s a good and bad thing. Yes, some people want to be featured and have millions of people contact them but then again, some people don’t. It can be overwhelming when you all of a sudden get so many instant messages, e-mails and alerts and don’t know where to start. At some points I found it easier to appear offline for a few minutes just so I could catch up. That might not sound so horrible to some people but everyone is different and you might love it.
Every dating site has its ups and downs and with AdultMeetings there are more ups for sure. I have tried quite a few sites and have always found there to be more guys I don’t want to date than ones I do want to date. On here, there are more that I want to date than not and the ones I don’t, I just block or remove from my profile. You don’t have to feel bad when you’re taking control of your dating life and it’s easy on a site like this. If it hadn’t been for my friend I probably wouldn’t have come across this site because it’s not exactly screaming ‘Find Men Here’ but when you sign up, your perception will instantly change. Its looks can be extremely deceiving but there’s a lot of good men in here who want to date and the best part it, they’re local. So close you wouldn’t believe it. I had no idea that there were this many hot men in my neighborhood. A dating site really opens up your eyes to how many people are looking for hookups online. HOT people looking for hookups online.
There are a bunch of members in here looking for all kinds of romance so you WILL hook up
and it will be all that you hoped for. If you’re straight, bi-sexual, gay, single or in a relationship, there is something there for you. This site has my vote!